✦ «The distribution of power in tango»

Partner dances, dances for two, floor dances, social dances, ballroom dances… many names describe the popular dances performed at social gatherings. In tango, the dance partners represent a majestic image of the couple, while simultaneously asserting the power of heteronormativity. Dancers have it easy at the milonga. They benefit from the permissiveness of the patriarchal code of the social dance, inherited from the history of social dances in Europe since the beginning of the 19th century.
In light of the evolving dynamics of gender relations, particularly the denunciation of sexual and gender-based violence, the social dimension of ballroom dancing has experienced a resurgence. The "lead-follow" dynamic, already inadequate for analyzing movement, is being re-examined through the lens of the development of queer tango and the concept of dual roles. Regardless of their sexual orientation, the roles of partners are being renegotiated within a context where gender mixing remains quantitatively dominant.
This renegotiation takes the form of a re-semanticization («leader-follower»). When this anglicism appeared in tango in the 2000s, it referred to the issue of sexual minorities, to the stigmatization they are subjected to in reactionary circles, due to their deviation from the heterosexual norm, but also to the valorization of the question of sexual identities as constitutive of a singular identity, powerfully valued in hyper-individualistic consumer societies.
What does it mean, and what claims does it support today? Does it succeed in breaking the continuity between ordinary life (where male domination is exercised) and the relational space of tango? Does dissociating role and gender allow for the elimination of the roles that constitute tango? Does decoupling gender and sexual orientation, in order to move towards a desexualization of the dance, lead to the suspension of domination? What becomes, under these conditions, of the circulation of desire, the eros that contributes to the atmosphere of the milonga?